The beginning…it starts right HERE!

From Wayne Foley: Many of you already know about Tamela’s breast cancer diagnosis just last month, December 10th 2021. She has already completed TWO hurdles in this race against the disease. On January 7th 2022, she had her lumpectomy surgery and just this past Wednesday completed the intense brachytherapy which is the targeted radiation treatments.

NOW, because of the aggressiveness of the breast cancer that Tamela has, she will start preparing for chemotherapy treatments. 12 weeks of intense treatment followed by an additional 9 MONTHS of herceptin which is an anti-cancer drug .

In hopes of adding support for her, I have created this website and blog for her to share with us all. Share what? Whatever it is that she decides to share. I’m praying that during this journey, she is able to share not only the successes but also the rough times.

I want this to be a SAFE place for her and I pray that the comments made here in response to her posts are kind and supportive. I want this to be a place that she can call her own and it’s separate from the often cruel world of FB and other social media outlets.

I’ve set this up without her knowledge and I plan to hopefully surprise her with it today. Maybe she will even find time to post something.

Tamela has been the most AMAZING wife to me during the past 30 years. If you know her well, you know that she is the cream of the crop and the crème de la crème. You couldn’t ask for a better friend and I hope you are able to help support her during the next year. I’m so lucky that I can call her my best friend and wife for so many years. God was truly watching out for me because she was no doubt, created in HIS image.

I know that some of you have lived through this monster called cancer and I know some of you have seen the devastation that it causes, including death. I pray that you are able to share from your perspective and are able to empathize with what she’s going through in a supportive way.

Thanks for taking the time to read this!

In HIS grips,

Wayne

Lumpectomy and Brachytherapy (next hurdle is 12 months of Chemotherapy)
Catheter for Chemotherapy (over 12 months period)

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Diane Solomon

Tamela, I will be praying for you throughout this journey that you are now on. I know it will not be easy, but you can do all things thru Christ who strengthens you and by His stripes you are healed! I am believing with you and Wayne for victory over this disease! Love and prayers in the Name of Jesus! Diane Solomon

    Tamela
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    Reply to  Diane Solomon

    Thank you, Diane. I appreciate your prayers and kind words. In Jesus name!
    ~ Tamela

      Walter Gillett
      Walter Gillett

      I left a comment below your first blog. I am thankful it was detected early, and that you have a good chance of defeating this cancer. We will support you how we can.

        Nancy Reddington
        Nancy Reddington

        Prayers and thoughts are with you Tamela as you go thru this season of life. I have been thru something similar as this and when I had good days, that’s just what they were, good days. The more difficult days, whatever it was, I kept telling myself it was only temporary, it would pass and I could do it! Was it hard at times, yes, but it was temporary! Even if temporary was 10 min or 10 days or 10 weeks. And guess what?? I did make it. You will too Tamela. You’ve got God on your side, a great husband and family, friends to help you thru. On your list of things to do, you’ve already marked off two things on that list. We are here for you Tamela, may God continue to bless you!

          Tamela
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          Nancy, thank you so much. I’m so thankful for your support. Love ya’ll.

            Colin Foley
            Colin Foley

            We love you so very much mom! We are all praying and there are so many people that care so much about you.

              Tamela
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              Reply to  Colin Foley

              Love you, Colin! I am thankful for you honey!

                Mat Simons
                Mat Simons

                Know that many will be with you guys on this hard journey and pray to keep the courage to go on. Prayers for You and your Family, You can do it!

                  Tamela
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                  Reply to  Mat Simons

                  Thank you, Mat! I appreciate you!

                    Tena Ratliff
                    Tena Ratliff

                    Hi Tamela and Wayne, I will be praying for U both
                    My grandmother had breast cancer
                    My cousin had breast cancer, that is when I found out a man can get breast cancer too. Today he is a survivor
                    We will be here to get y’all through this journey

                      Tamela
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                      Reply to  Tena Ratliff

                      Thank you for your encouragement! I love to hear survivor stories. They give me hope!